- standardize_path is made more lenient: it no longer calls os.path.realpath,
as that was causing issues on Windows with some mounted drives
- daemon._wallets is still keyed on the old strict standardize_path, but
filesystem operations in WalletStorage use the new lenient standardize_path.
- daemon._wallets is strict to forbid opening the same logical file twice concurrently
- fs operations however work better on the non-resolved paths, so they use those
closes https://github.com/spesmilo/electrum/issues/8495